Women, why?

Tue, 04/14/2009 - 18:15

I have a huge pet peeve with certain otherwise quite respectable women here in the south. Now, I am from the north and do not mean to sound discriminatory towards the south, because I do love living here and will never go back north of the mason dixon line to live. I only direct this one towards southern women because I've only expereinced it living in the south. Anyway the pet peeve.
Why the hell do some of you speak like 5 year old girls, Really? Why the high pitched baby-voice when saying "thank you" or "please" or anything else really. I know that isn't your real voice, because I've heard you speak already in other situations. While I know it is natural human behaviour to raise your voicea few octaves when it comes to formal matters but there is no reason to sound like a giddy little school girl. Are men really attracted to this? I couldn't imagine how they sound squealing during sex as it would drive any rational and sane person towards the same sex.
Please stop this, you make it impossible for me to respect you at an adult level and/or take you seriously as a human being with needs.

01/12/2010 - 14:09

Know exactly what you're saying! I live in Texas, and find this a seriously annoying trait! So, let me tell ya how I "fixed" one of them. Had this waitress who came up and started doing this "baby voice" bs. So, right after she's done telling our table (mostly women) about the "specials" and about her day (like we cared! but ya know, anything for attention with these types). Anyhow, right away, in the most obvious and annoying high-pitched voice I could do, I say "OOOh, well tank u bewry bewry much, I miwght hawve not undertood da menu odderwise" (then, give my best bimbo giggle-really obnoxiously). Oh she GOT the point, and got it loud and clear!! The next time she came back to the table, she spoke very normally and amazingly had dropped the baby act! Seriously, I'm barely 5 feet tall, and I don't talk like that-so the bigger women are just making an a** of themselves doing this! It's ridiculous, and stupid. Plus, seems to me that the only man you'll attract with that act is a pedaphile! NO THANKS!

04/25/2009 - 22:30

some of us are just plagued with ridiculously high pitched voices. i have spent half my life trying not to sound ridiculous to no avail.

04/17/2009 - 19:00

"Exactly how do gay men talk? I assume you think we are all high-pitched lisping sissies? Maybe you should branch out and meet a few more gay men before making your ignorant, gross generalizations."

"My best friend is gay and he doesn't talk in any way other than normal. Not all gay men/women act different."

Thank you for illustrating my point against this rant. Who cares how someone talks. His rant can be illustrated with any faction of society.

04/16/2009 - 15:41

Thank you above commenter. My best friend is gay and he doesn't talk in any way other than normal. Not all gay men/women act different.

04/16/2009 - 14:28

Exactly how do gay men talk? I assume you think we are all high-pitched lisping sissies? Maybe you should branch out and meet a few more gay men before making your ignorant, gross generalizations.

04/15/2009 - 19:07

I am a woman, and I don't talk like a baby...and I fit in socially just fine (guys flirt with me all the time, and I'm married.) Therefore, that's not an excuse as to why they do it. They do it because guys like you give them attention when they do. If you have to act stupid and talk like a baby because you have no self-esteem, I guess I could understand why attention from an a$shat like you would be desirable. By the way, I am not the commenter you were responding to, but you pissed me off anyway.

04/15/2009 - 16:52

To Previous Poster: A gay guy couldn't possibly understand what is attractive about a Southern Belle squealing during sex. Just as I don't understand what is attractive about a male grunting during sex. So, let's not pull the Gay card.

As for the baby-doll talk, get over it. Its how the girls down here were raised. Getting upset about it is like getting upset about how gay men talk. It doesn't change who they are, or how intelligent they are. It simply expresses personality, a love of life, and happiness. I'm sorry you can't respect a girl who fits in socially.

04/15/2009 - 16:14

I agree completely! This is one of the most annoying traits of southern people! I have to say that I grew up in Georgia, and there is nothing attractive or intelligent about how certain southern girls speak. Of course, there's plenty wrong with how southern people speak in general! I'm not saying the dialect has to go, but at least make it sound intelligent! Southern people get made fun of for their grammar and deserve EVERY bit of it!! Stop using double negatives, racial slurs, and ignorant statements every three seconds and people will take you serious! Either that or you don't got no reason to argue when people call you stupid!

Also, the people saying mean remarks about the Gay male posting, grow up and join the present time. Just because he's gay doesn't mean be doesn't get to make his opinion heard, or is that what you're willing to take away next. He already can't marry here... At least let him use his freedom of speech and don't say he doesn't understand because he's gay! Maybe you don't understand because you're ignorant and just want some stupid woman to act, sound, and squeal like a little girl to satisfy your pedophiliac needs.

04/15/2009 - 12:58

Yeah, that squeaky, girly voice always pisses me off. It's not only southern girls that do it, it's just girls in general, chicks in California do it too, IE Paris Hilton..hate that bitch!
Oh and I will always love my home, going for a visit this summer...I heart NYC! lol

04/15/2009 - 11:32

Me being gay has nothing to do with my lack of understanding as to why someone would want to sound stupid on purpose, to the comment above, I believe you are the only one who really understood what I was trying to say. I think the other posters might just be the reason these women act in such a way.....you obviously look at women as dolls for your entertainment. It's ok, you'll grow up one day and desire a real woman. Ask me, I know a bunch of them that could whip y'all into real men.

04/15/2009 - 10:32

I'm a straight male, and I don't get it either!! I married a girl born in the north but raised in the south. She is 95% sweet southern belle with just 5% bossy northern woman. She is kind, charming, and beautiful, but she's smart as a whip and doesn't take any crap from anyone. Stupid women who talk like toddlers or pretend to be less intelligent than they are a turn off. You cannot have a real relationship with someone who thinks it's cute and coy to act stupid. Ew. Thank GOD for my wife!! And ladies, grow up and act intelligent. Anyone who thinks you're cute because you act stupid just wants to get in your pants.

04/15/2009 - 09:47

You are a gay male...why would you get it?

04/14/2009 - 23:10

Maybe you should nail a chick, and find out why it is enjoyable. Marry a girl like that...maybe not, but to not understand why it is fun to hear her squeal? Really?

04/14/2009 - 20:41

One, I am a gay male.
Second, many southern females agree with me.
Third, I really have to stress the "baby" aspect of it all. I mean, I dont mind the high effeminate thing but literally, a woman looks normal then opens her mouth and you could mistake her for a toddler.
I guess I just dont get it, but whatever floats your boat.

04/14/2009 - 19:14

Are you kidding me?! Northern girl, the girlie squealing during sex is easily the best part of Southern girls. Haven't you ever watched porn? Those girls all strive for what southern belles have naturally. You should adopt this technique soon, that way you won't be so wound up.

04/14/2009 - 19:06

Also:

"I couldn't imagine how they sound squealing during sex as it would drive any rational and sane person towards the same sex."

It sounds amazing, and I love every second of it!

04/14/2009 - 19:04

Actually, I enjoy that about southern women. Being a man from the Philadelphia, I am glad to be away from bossy northern women. I do get your point when it comes to the excesses of these traits. However, if you were just a *little* bossier, and opinionated, I might just say you are displaying the Northern counter-traits.